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Member Safety

Safety at Every Layer

Kyzmyt was built from the ground up so that every person you meet is verified — for real. Not optional. Not a selfie filter. Actually verified.

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Government ID Verified

Every member submits a government-issued photo ID and liveness check via Stripe Identity before accessing the platform. No exceptions.

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Background Checked

Every member undergoes a national criminal background check and sex offender registry screening via Checkr. Results are tamper-proof by architecture.

Date Check-In System

Going on a date? Set a check-in. If you don't confirm you're safe, your emergency contact gets an automatic SMS alert. Industry first.

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Report. We Act.

Every report goes directly to our safety team. Harassment, threats, and scam attempts are met with immediate bans — no warnings, no second chances.


How We Verify Every Member

Kyzmyt's verification process is mandatory, sequential, and tamper-proof. Here's what happens before anyone can interact with you:

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    Account Creation

    You create an account with your real name and email. No interaction features are available yet.

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    ID Verification ($5)

    You submit a government-issued photo ID and complete a liveness check via Stripe Identity. Cost: $5 one-time, non-refundable.

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    Background Check ($30)

    Checkr runs a national criminal background check and sex offender registry screening. Results are delivered directly from Checkr to our database via a cryptographically signed webhook — no human can intercept or alter them. Cost: $30 one-time, non-refundable.

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    Verified Status Granted

    Once both checks pass, your profile receives a verified badge. You can now discover, match, and message other verified members.

Background check results are permanent and unalterable — not even Kyzmyt administrators can modify them. If a check does not pass, the account cannot access interactive features and may be denied entirely.


The Date Check-In System

You've matched, you've chatted, and now you're going on a real-world date. Kyzmyt's check-in system has your back.

  1. 1

    Set Your Check-In

    From the Messages screen, start a date check-in before your date begins. Enter your phone number and designate a trusted emergency contact.

  2. 2

    Go On Your Date

    Kyzmyt's system monitors your check-in status in the background.

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    Check In When Safe

    After your date, open the app and confirm you're safe. Takes five seconds.

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    Alert if You Don't

    If your check-in goes unconfirmed past the window, your emergency contact receives an automatic SMS alert. You can also text "SAFE" to resolve it remotely.


Meeting Safely in Person

Even on a verified platform, your personal safety habits matter. These practices apply to every first meeting:

Meet in Public

Always choose a well-populated public location for first meetings — coffee shops, restaurants, parks.

Tell Someone

Let a friend or family member know where you're going, who you're meeting, and when you expect to be back.

Your Own Ride

Drive yourself or arrange your own transportation. Don't get in a car with someone you just met.

Use Check-In

Set a date check-in before every first meeting. It takes 30 seconds and gives you a safety net.

Trust Your Gut

If something feels wrong — it probably is. Leave without explanation. Your comfort comes first.

Keep Details Private

Don't share your home address, workplace, or daily routine until you know someone well.


Safety vs. Other Platforms

Safety FeatureTinderBumbleeHarmonyKyzmyt
Background checksOptionalOptionalNoneMandatory — every member
Government ID verificationSelfie onlySelfie onlyNoneGov ID + liveness check
Tamper-proof resultsNoNoNoYes — Checkr webhook direct to DB
Date check-in systemNoNoNoYes — SMS alert if overdue
Verified member badgeNoPartialNoEvery member — no exceptions
Post-date safety ratingNoNoNoYes — private, anonymous

Reporting and Our Response

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    Report In-App or by Email

    Use the flag icon on any profile or message to report in-app. For urgent safety concerns, email safety@kyzmyt.com directly.

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    We Review — Fast

    Safety reports are reviewed on a priority basis. Severe violations result in immediate account suspension pending review.

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    We Act — Zero Tolerance

    Harassment, threats, and romance scam attempts are met with immediate permanent bans. We will cooperate with law enforcement on matters involving criminal behavior.

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    You're Protected

    The reporting member's identity is never revealed to the person being reported. You will receive a confirmation email when your report has been reviewed.

Safety Concern Right Now?

If you are in immediate danger, call 911. For urgent platform safety issues, reach our safety team directly.

safety@kyzmyt.com